Two years ago, the thought of children did not cross my mind. I was career-driven. I was ready to take over the world. Then... I turned 27. And suddenly, from somewhere deep inside me, I started to her the tick-tock of my biological clock. It was sudden. It was alarming. But, it is there and I can no longer ignore it or pretend it's not a factor in my decision-making.
I spend a lot of my time pondering questions like "What if I got pregnant?" and "How would we make it when I'm earning only a fraction of my income while on maternity leave?". Will getting pregnant (if I even can) ruin my career growth by putting me on the mommy track? Will I lose interest in my career because suddenly my priorities will drastically change, including my inclination to spend 4 hours commuting to a job that I like, but don't love?
So many questions. So few answers. But, what I do know is that in my heart, I really want to have kids. I want to shape the future by raising a child that brings value into the world.
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Top 10 Ways Figure Skating Prepares You For Life
I've been actively involved in figure skating for the last 16 years. While I can't let skating take all the credit for the way I turned out (I did have great parents, family, friends and role models), it definitely played a formative part in my development. I dedicate this post to the figure skating world.
1. Skating teaches you how to fall and get up again. Over and over and over again.
2. Judging isn't fair. Neither is life.
3. Hardwork and dedication will eventually pay off.
4. Keep your head up and eyes open for other people. They don't always watch out for themselves.
5. Visit the skate sharpener frequently. You can't keep your edge with dull blades.
6. Sparkles and pretty costumes don't make you a better skater.
7. Take care of your wounds and injuries. If you don't, they will wreak havoc on you in the future.
8. Skate like everyday is your last.
9. Push yourself. You can't grow if you don't try something new.
10. You don't have to do it all yourself. That's why we have coaches, friends, and family in the stands to cheer us on.
1. Skating teaches you how to fall and get up again. Over and over and over again.
2. Judging isn't fair. Neither is life.
3. Hardwork and dedication will eventually pay off.
4. Keep your head up and eyes open for other people. They don't always watch out for themselves.
5. Visit the skate sharpener frequently. You can't keep your edge with dull blades.
6. Sparkles and pretty costumes don't make you a better skater.
7. Take care of your wounds and injuries. If you don't, they will wreak havoc on you in the future.
8. Skate like everyday is your last.
9. Push yourself. You can't grow if you don't try something new.
10. You don't have to do it all yourself. That's why we have coaches, friends, and family in the stands to cheer us on.
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